Sunday, September 26, 2010

學習的態度

有朋友都好意提過我


網絡世界都係小心用詞, 一陣比當事人睇到就唔好


所以....考慮良欠, 改變少少都要寫出黎


記住呢篇唔係針對, 而係分享....


話說我有份成人學生學樂理


我呢家音樂中心有點特別


要考試先可以升級, 如要跳級, 就要經佢內部既一次滙演, 由中心既顧問評左分 批刻左, 就可以收升級後既學費, 目的當然係唔想老師隨意升級改高一檔的學費喇 !


呢位學生, 唔會考試, 我唔知點解老師又教緊佢5級考試曲目, 咁成人學生係可以特別處理唔使參與滙演既, 佢當然係唔願意比5級學費, 如是者...佢最後無學, 改學樂理


佢同我講, 學樂理既目的, 係想係囡囡考之前, 佢學左先 ( 真係好媽媽....)


佢試左我一堂.....我亦好榮幸咁, 佢學咁多年都堅持既30mins, 改為跟我學後就45mins


職員亦提過我 : 佢一學就自行skip左 g. 1 既theory, 一開波先自己買左本 g. 2叫老師教...


(其實真係有問題架, 因為某d term, 第一本教完, 第二至五級係唔會再重覆講)


而家上左3堂...sorry...佢從無做過一次功課


頭2次, 佢都話真對你唔住 . 我既答覆係 : 唔緊要, 不過你唔做, 我唔知你有無錯, 我怕再教多d, 你原來唔明既會加深,  = 浪費佢之前既時間....


亦叫佢橫掂囡囡遲早都會學, 不如買返本 一級既, 我剔低邊d係重要既, 叫佢copy果部份, 整本就留返比囡囡用.... (當然暫時都未行動)


亦叫佢買返本五線譜方便教果時jot notes (我無打錯, 係jot, 而唔係drop)


最後呢個當然係都無買既....


到第3堂, 佢再無做功課既時間, 我改為用另一句 : 成年人, 你自己會識處理及安排 !


我都好大體架喇.......


其實....我都唔明, 佢可以有時間去思考反問我野 (佢話佢有睇書喎) 仲有時間去備課...


咁點解唔去做 ??? (呢個先係我想講既態度問題)


教佢scale, 我會用sofa音去教, 再教佢分邊度係半音 , 全音....咁就會記得有咩 # / b,


佢拎起本書, 話咩 tt s tt (即係tone , semitone) 其實即係全音, 半音 (我加埋sofa 音教, 我唔知叫岩定唔岩, 不過起碼有個依靠去諗返咩係tone & semitone, 唔會蕩失路之嘛 )


我都答佢 : 佢用咩方法都ok, 總之佢明白個道理就得!


之但係....試左一條....答案當然係唔得架喇.....


又問點知睇完key signature點知係咩 key (佢當時答我佢已死記左, 咁你記得, 我緊係唔再教你點搵 - 我唔係唔教, 而係...唔想教多樣野, 令佢煩上加煩)


咁你既然真係話記得, 無謂學多樣令你再有疑問呀嘛.... (咁, 佢一時失手唔記得, 定咩...我不得而知, 成人既野, 唔好樣樣篤爆會好d )


我淨係知, 開始學minor, 佢再唔做功課, 真係會死得人多......


仲要...佢成日依賴部琴去聽sofa音, 而先發現佢既全音半音係錯既.....先係問題 (我提左佢架喇, 諗左咩先去彈, 唔係彈呢個唔岩, 果個唔岩先黎彈幾個)


最攪笑係 : 我叫佢記得邊頁係教咩, 方便搵 !


佢反問我 : 乜考試可以open book架咩 ?


我 : 唔係, 咁你而家唔搵多幾次/ 揭多幾次去記, 你考試點算??


無錯, 佢而家連半音係邊2pairs都唔記得, 仲要揭開第一頁我幫佢寫既貓紙........


3星期仲要學緊 grade 2......(我叻果d....2星期ko一本架喇 )


我唔敢講 : 我怕你學到你個囡開始你都未準備好去考呀......


(其實呢...我又覺得佢係只想有個idea, 到時可以幫下個囡....之但係, 我覺佢自己個概念都係好弱....只係佢覺自己ok - 明哂果隻..)


其實我唔理佢成人定小學生, 最緊要係做功課, 咁我先幫到佢....一咪上堂一咪學, 但唔去實踐...有咩用 ?? -------->>>>>> 呢個先係我呢篇既重點..... 


 


7 comments:

  1. 而家好多人都冇咩責任感架... 大人係, 小朋友都係, 講真, 佢真係唔學算數啦, 到時佢用佢的"錯的理論"教佢個女, 真係死得人多...
    [版主回覆09/27/2010 13:01:00]哈哈, 真係同感 ! 到時佢可能叫囡囡去challenge 老師

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  2. 唔交功課, 又自行skip課程, 有咁 嘅學生真係幾煩.
    [版主回覆09/27/2010 13:04:00]我最怕就係佢以為自己明, 所以唔做功課...(我太明, 唔做會唔記得架, 遲d又要花時間再教返佢明...)

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  3. 學樂理唔做功課邊得架! 到時佢加埋自己意見去教個女真係仲搞亂個女呀~
    [版主回覆09/27/2010 23:05:00]佢自己都一知半解...死得 !

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  4. Finally get a chance to read your blog la.   I totally agree with what you said about doing homework.  These people think they are genius but the truth is ...  What the hell you can do?  Nothing.  I ran into these types of students before when I was tutoring.  It's really nothing that you can do and since she is an adult, the situation is more complicated. Wish you all the best.
    [版主回覆09/27/2010 23:06:00]thanks !

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  5. 算吧啦!根本就唔想學多....以為自己可以學快 d 幫囡囡...最後應該係咩都幫唔到
    [版主回覆09/28/2010 10:51:00]我都估係咁.....

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  6. 我未學過樂理, 只係當時囝囝囡囡學琴, 我都跟埋一齊學, 一來係自己想學, 二來真係希望可以陪佢地一齊練習, 相反地因為我學得慢, 所以平時練習唔明都係問番佢兩個...
    [版主回覆09/28/2010 10:55:00]學得慢, 唔明...咩都好, 唔係一個問題,
    正如假設你目的係自己想學, 再可以陪住佢地一齊練....係好事; 不過...你唔練, 點推動佢地練呢 ? 所以....佢最後唔考都唔係一個問題, 至重要都係果句 : 佢唔去做, 唔實踐, 我唔知佢明幾多, 亦唔sure佢可以記得d 野幾耐....

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  7. 唉....呢 d 又係愛你變害你
     
    第時個囡開始學既時候, 知錯都好 d
    唔知錯, 仲要同個女互相指對方唔岩, 咁就傷感情啦
    [版主回覆09/28/2010 21:29:00]傷唔傷感情我就真係唔知
    我而家可以做既就係...教....佢唔做/ 做咩/ 點做都話之佢 !

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